Category Archives : The Daily Grain


Never discount your reservations

Today I want to talk to you about intuition. Many people think this is something of a psychic phenomenon but intuition you could rename as reservations. On the positive side of it, it has many other different names but let’s take the negative side of it for the moment. So reservations – never discount your […]

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Show up as worthy of respect

Yesterday I mentioned that it is not in our power to give absolution or forgiveness and that is true but here’s something that is completely in our power and it is this: to remove any trace of bias or expectation for negativity in ourselves so that when we approach relationships we approach it with a […]

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You cannot give anyone absolution

So to wrap up and close the loop from yesterday’s Daily Grain in the same way that you cannot receive true absolution from an external source, you also cannot give it, right? What’s sauce for the goose… When you absolve someone or when you forgive someone true healing and true reconciliation, so in that sense, […]

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Absolution is not external

I’ve done a couple of Daily Grains on the themes of guilt and shame and also forgiveness so today I want to do one on something that is at the root of both these things and it is absolution. So for good or ill absolution cannot come from an external source – true absolution comes […]

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Relationships are like mirrors

You have probably heard this numerous times that relationships are like mirrors and very often this is used to indicate that relationships show us things in ourselves that we should modify or that we are projecting on others and things that we can usefully better in ourselves. So today I want you to look at […]

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You are more…

It is a very critical thing to see ourselves in our entirety because we are more than the sum of our parts. We tend to look at ourselves in segments, as in maybe we like sport, or maybe we like to read, and we are encouraged in this by the general view of society that […]

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Relationships and your life path

I wonder if you’ve had any answers to yesterday’s question about what your life path is? And I hope you do because the serious downside of not knowing what your life path is, is then you involve other people, you get into groups that you think suit you and then you find after months or […]

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What is your life path?

I have a question for you today and it is this: what is your life path? Do you know? Do you know where you’re going? I sound like the song! But seriously do you know where you’re going, do you know what you want your life to look like, what you see yourself doing when […]

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